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  1. Throughout Church history, the greatest people that accomplished the most for God are men and women who took time to pray; they were men and women of prayer. The greatest testimony is that people who did the most for God spent the most time in prayer. Jesus Christ was a person of profound prayer. He frequently withdrew to “a deserted place to pray” (Luke 5:16). Sometimes, He spent the entire night in prayer (Luke 6:12; Luke 9:18). Before embarking on His ministry, Jesus spent 40 days in the wilderness fasting and praying to align Himself with God’s Spirit. “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). “The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much” (James 5:16).

    Before calling His disciples, Jesus prayed. Before feeding the five thousand, He prayed. Before preaching the Sermon on the Mount, He prayed. On the night before He died, Jesus prayed at the Last Supper. Before being arrested in the garden, He prayed, and while hanging upon the cross, Jesus prayed, not once, but several times. It is prayer that gave Jesus energy, strength, and mission clarity. That’s why the disciples asked Him, “Lord, teach us how to pray.” They knew that prayer gave Jesus wisdom to teach, compassion to heal, power to perform miracles, and the ability to lead and reconcile. “Men ought always to pray, and not to faint” (Luke 18:1). “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving” (Colossians 4:2). Clearly the lesson we pick from Jesus life and mission is that prayer is not optional.

  2. Jesus was a prayer warrior. Even right now, He is interceding for us in the heavenly sanctuary (Hebrews 7:5). One day, “Jesus was praying in a certain place.” (Luke 11:1). Habitually, Jesus withdrew to quiet places to pray. His disciples must have observed his prayer life. They must have heard the intensity, genuineness, and closeness of his prayers with His Father. They must have desired to pray like Him. The request, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.” was not an ordinary request for a prayer, but a request to equip them with power to pray always. They must have discovered that Jesus’ authority to perform miracles, teach and be strong in times of hardship was due to his close communication with God the Father. This was a request on how to be connected to God, the source of all power and spiritual victories.

    There are indeed powerful lessons to learn from the request, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples”.

    1. The disciples understood that prayer is something to be learned. Prayer is not simply speaking spiritual words to God. We must learn to trust God. We must learn to listen to God. We must learn to be reverent before God. We must learn to depend on God. We must learn to pray without ceasing. We must learn to be persistent in our prayers. We must learn to align our will with God’s will.
    2. Jesus’ prayer life must have inspired His disciples. Our spiritual life should also inspire others. Our spiritual life should be an open testimony to witness to others.
    3. Good spiritual habits need to be taught. Imitating good spiritual habits is very sound theologically. “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” )1 Corinthians 11:1). Quite often, good habits and character are shaped by association. “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice…” (2 Timothy 1:15)
    4. The disciples were humble enough to request Jesus to teach them how to pray. Pride is a spiritual killer. We must admit that we are not all-knowing and seek spiritual help when we are in need.
    5. Jesus’ prayer is deeply relational, “Our Father…..”. Prayer should not be ritualistic and mechanical. It is possible for Jesus to have used any of God’s titles (Almighty Creator, Supreme Judge, Sovereign God, etc), but He chose, “Our Father”. Jesus was teaching His disciples to approach God not with fear but as One who lovingly cares to listen to their pleas. When we pray, we should believe that God feels and understands our prayers. This is not an individual God but One who answers “our” prayers.

    • “It is possible for Jesus to have used any of God’s titles (Almighty Creator, Supreme Judge, Sovereign God, etc), but He chose, “Our Father”. Jesus was teaching His disciples to approach God not with fear but as One who lovingly cares to listen to their pleas.”

      That hit home. Thank you, Omwenga. How wonderful that the Creator of the universe calls us his children and seeks to have such an intimate relationship with us.

    • Did you mean to write Hebrews 7:25 as the supporting text about Jesus as our intercessor? Also can you comment on this very important part of the prayer, “lead us not into temptation” I await your response.

      • Dear Paulette,
        Thanks, that is the text I meant (Hebrews 7:25), not verse 5. Regarding the part of Jesus’ prayer, “lead us not into temptation”, what I know is that God cannot be tempted with evil, and He cannot tempt anyone to do evil.

        “God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one” (James 1:13).

        I am not sure what the original language meant; however, what I understand of the text is that Jesus was pleading with His Father not to allow his disciples to be overcome with evil. Jesus was requesting His Father to keep the disciples from situations that would lead them to do evil. In other words, Jesus was asking His Father to shield His disciples from evil situations. The New Living Translation (NLT) Bible version provides a more straightforward meaning, I suppose.

        “And don’t let us yield to temptation, but rescue us from the evil one” (Matthew 6:13, NLT).

        I also want to add that God may allow us to go through tests or trials for spiritual growth to refine our characters. God always protects from evil, and that is why He sent His Son Jesus Christ to come to planet earth to set us fre from evil.

  3. I don’t really think this has stopped in modern times, and there is still a lot to unlearn:

    …..In the time of Jesus, prayers that were long and carefully crafted like a performance—using complex words and often memorized—were highly esteemed (Matthew 6:5–7; Luke 18:10–14)…

    Nowadays, it becomes so easy to distinguish between prayers from the aristocracy—an “elite” prayer—and that of the lowest society. I used to have a lot of contention with the phrase “prayer warriors,” as it was often made to imply an elitist prayer force within the church—suggesting that the prayers of such a team would overshadow all others who pray in church (James 5:16).

    But early on Sabbath mornings, there is a silent group of humble members—even troubled souls—who, when you carefully observe them, pray quietly yet intensely. Without hearing a word, the environment itself seems to respond (1 Samuel 1:12–13; Psalm 34:17). Prayers such as Jacob’s before meeting Esau (Genesis 32:9–12); Samson’s final plea (Judges 16:28); Elijah’s on Mount Carmel (1 Kings 18:36–37); Peter’s brief cry, “Lord, save me!” (Matthew 14:30)—may have been short or not eloquently worded, yet their substance and intent were understood. Simple, straight, and direct from the heart—this is what prayer should be (Psalm 51:17).

    Once again, today’s study is a school for me. The relationship with God that we seek is deeply heart-to-heart, and Jesus structures the Lord’s Prayer so comprehensively—to allow anyone to pray it with a contrite heart (Matthew 6:9–13). Then God responds (Jeremiah 29:12–13), and across all ages, this prayer has remained relevant and powerful.

    • Amen, Stanley!
      I have had “concern” with my prayer life when hearing of prayer warriors. It’s bothersome to me because I guess I feel inadequate, but your post laid it out so clearly. I do not have to have an elite prayer to offer God; clearly, nothing we have compares to Him anyway, and as His child all He desires is to hear from me, to know that I depend on Him.

    • Dear Stanley, thanks again for your inspiring words. What God wants is a contrite heart. He wants individuals who are hungering and thirsting after righteousness. People who want to grow closer and closer to Christ in character. People who want the Holy Spirit to change their carnal nature to a spiritual nature. People who want the Holy Spirit to live inside of them (as his temple) so that they could develop the mind of Christ. This is what Paul in Ephesians 6:18 meant when he said that we must pray “in the Spirit….” and our prayers must be supplications (begging) with perseverance. This is what Jacob was doing when he wrestled with God. Our prayers should be wrestlings with God. “Lord, why are you taking so long to fix me?” “Lord, I am not sleeping tonight before you cleanse my heart from sin and take away my desire for X, Y, Z.” Somebody knows what this means.

    • Thank you for your comment, Stanley. I am not comfortable with the term “prayer warriors” myself. I see no real biblical basis for it. Rather, I see men and women of God talking to Him as both Lord and friend.
      I believe God wants us to trust and confide in Him as a small child would trust and confide in a loving parent.

    • Long ago, I did knew that memorised and lengthy prayers was what mattered during a prayer, only for a short, clear, precise, direct, eloquent prayer was what God needed from us. Peter’s cry ( Lord, save me, Matthew 14:30)
      Thanks Stanley for your submission, have gained a lot from practical prayer lesson.

      Lord teach me how to pray, increase my Faith and let me abide in you. Amen 🙏

  4. By recognizing our Heavenly Father as Creator GOD and Lord of our life, we are denying satan the devil of his false authority over us and of this world. For this reason we are always under attack, as Jesus was on earth. The more reason for us to be always in prayer, building our relationship with our Savior and soon coming King.

  5. The Lord’s Prayer says it all; it teaches us how simple a prayer can be: to open the heart as to a friend. Thank you, Lord, for the invitation to a dialogue! What a great opportunity: to have the Owner of the Universe talking to us as a friend!

  6. The effectual fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much” James 5:16 (KJV)

    It is as we avail ourselves to be emptied of sin and take on His character that our prayers will be full of power to defeat the enemy!!!!

  7. A saying goes “More prayer,more power, less prayer,less power, and no prayer, no power”.
    My father God, please don’t continue to remain silent to my petition.Open my heart and my eyes to find and understand your goodness to me and my family.
    Amen.

  8. Growing up in the Catholic tradition of faith I learned that prayer was recitation of memorized text. It was also often used as a means of penance after time in the confessional. I distinctly remember thinking that I had to recite the proscribed number of repetitions of the “Lord’s prayer” and the “Hail Mary” if I wanted forgiveness for my sins. I think that it hindered my prayer life rather than encouraged it.

    In the passing decades since my childhood I have learned and am still learning that prayer is like conversing with a friend or loved one. It doesn’t need to be practiced or polished but genuine and from the heart. Sometimes we can make prayer into a formula, or equation to somehow hope that we can manipulate God to hear and respond favorably. You know like we sometimes try to do with family or friends.

    True prayer is opening the heart as to a friend. Now where did I hear that before? 🤔😉😊

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At a camp meeting 40 years later, I happened to see Dr. I. demonstrating some kind of health product, if I remember correctly. (In my mind, I see only the image of him, much older, but still looking much like he did when I was a student, with a friend by my side.) I lingered a little but did not introduce myself. I briefly wondered whether he recognized me. I’m fairly sure that I was as recognizable to him as he was to me.

Had he changed? Or did he still feel superior in his “humility”? Should I talk to him? I didn’t know how to approach him, and was busy with friends. I still don’t know whether I should have said something. (Maybe I’m just a coward.)

If God wants him to see my story, his and my identity are clear enough in this post, that God can direct him to it.